This list is not exhaustive, but here are some key character qualities and basic life skills to aim at in your own life and with your children:
- Genuine conversion to Christ (not just a “decision,” but a heart changed by God)
- God-focused life (glorify and please God, not be a people-pleaser)
- Trust in God (Prayer in everything)
- Knowledge of God’s Word (a biblical thinker, discerning)
*A consistent quiet time, including Scripture memory
*A knowledge of basic biblical doctrines
- A heart for the lost (locally & globally)
*Ability to share the gospel
*Knowledge of, prayer for, and giving to missions
- The fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22-23):
*Love (for God & others)
*Joy (cheerful spirit, ability to handle trials)
*Peace (not a worrier)
*Patience (control of anger, frustration)
*Kindness (compassionate, sensitive to others, especially the hurting)
*Goodness (thinking of others’ needs, not mean toward the disadvantaged)
*Faithfulness (keeps word, follows through on assignments)
*Gentleness (not rude, overbearing)
*Self-control (disciplined, goal-oriented)
- Humility
- Self-denial (thinking of God & others ahead of self)
- A good listener
- Obedience to God and to proper authority
- Moral purity (God’s view of sex, moral standards; avoids porn and evil media)
- Alert to spiritual danger (guarding thought life, entertainment, etc.)
- Truthful, honest
- Thankfulness, gratitude
- Forgiving (not bitter, not holding grudges)
- Responsible (loyal, keeps word)
- Courage (to stand alone for convictions)
- Perseverance, endurance (doesn’t quit easily)
- Orderliness
- Initiative, industrious (knows how to work)
- Decisiveness
- Flexibility (able to adjust cheerfully to different people & situations)
- Relationally warm (chooses friends wisely)
- Hospitable, friendly
*Makes others feel welcome & comfortable
*Polite, has good manners
*Knows how to make introductions
*Smiles and maintains eye contact with others
*Anticipates and meets others’ needs
*Expresses gratitude
*A good sense of humor
- Faithful steward of God’s resources:
*Generous (not greedy)
*Faithful in giving
*Good financial management
*Respect for property
*Knows how to balance checkbook, budget, save, invest, and spend wisely
- Faithful steward of time
*Punctual
*Can set and achieve goals
*Balances work and leisure time
- Faithful steward of body
*Dresses appropriately (for situation) and modestly
*Maintains proper grooming, care of clothes, etc.
*Knows and follows proper nutrition
*Maintains appropriate weight, exercise, sleep
*Knows how to cook basic meals
- Other life skills:
*Housecleaning, laundry
*Wise shopper (sales, bargains, etc.)
*Ability to drive carefully, maintain car
*Ability to read well
*Ability to use computer, smart phone, other technology
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